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May 15, 2016 7:20:49 GMT -5
Post by Marya Dabrowski on May 15, 2016 7:20:49 GMT -5
Have you talked to your mother about your concerns in detail? If your mother is the kind of person that can be careful about these delicate matters, I suggest you talk things over with her. Did you speak to your husband on the matter? Generally speaking, if you are having alarm bells go off, there is probably a reason. If there was a way to discreetly find out more information about this man and how he came to be affiliated with your sister? You might also be able to find other people who know them and get a read on what they might think of him. Just a warning though, if you are incorrect, you have the potential to damage a reputation beyond repair. I know of this happening to a completely innocent man and his good name was destroyed, so there is always that to consider. Sorry to not reply. I chose the wrong week to join the forum. We just took a mini-vacation before summer craziness begins. Bad timing on my part. Back to the topic. My mom agrees that there are perverts around but doesn't suspect this man. My husband agrees with me 100%. He has better clarity than me about a lot of things and is so common sense. If he were to say, "That sounds crazy," I would believe him and not worry about it. |
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Nephew
May 15, 2016 7:24:17 GMT -5
Post by Marya Dabrowski on May 15, 2016 7:24:17 GMT -5
any legit good man would understand her concerns if confronted. If he dissembles...is nervous...lashes out...or lies...he is a threat. I agree. I don't think this sounds like a good situation all around. I wouldn't confront a man, at least not by myself, if I did not have to. I wouldn't say anything, my husband is willing if he was sure himself that something happened. |
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Nephew
May 15, 2016 7:26:36 GMT -5
Post by Marya Dabrowski on May 15, 2016 7:26:36 GMT -5
i would cut this strange man off from contacting the child. Sounds very concerning. I wish my sister would. Right now I don't think he's in the country and if he stays gone I don't have to worry anymore. I just wondered why no one besides my husband and myself thought this was grooming. My sister was kind of mad for me to suggest something was inappropriate so I didn't want to push the subject with her. |
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Nephew
May 15, 2016 7:29:01 GMT -5
via mobile
Post by Voxxkowalski on May 15, 2016 7:29:01 GMT -5
Blessed are you when you are persecuted for the sake of righteousness..."
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Nephew
May 16, 2016 21:31:14 GMT -5
Post by RitaMarita on May 16, 2016 21:31:14 GMT -5
Have you talked to your mother about your concerns in detail? If your mother is the kind of person that can be careful about these delicate matters, I suggest you talk things over with her. Did you speak to your husband on the matter? Generally speaking, if you are having alarm bells go off, there is probably a reason. If there was a way to discreetly find out more information about this man and how he came to be affiliated with your sister? You might also be able to find other people who know them and get a read on what they might think of him. Just a warning though, if you are incorrect, you have the potential to damage a reputation beyond repair. I know of this happening to a completely innocent man and his good name was destroyed, so there is always that to consider. Sorry to not reply. I chose the wrong week to join the forum. We just took a mini-vacation before summer craziness begins. Bad timing on my part. Back to the topic. My mom agrees that there are perverts around but doesn't suspect this man. My husband agrees with me 100%. He has better clarity than me about a lot of things and is so common sense. If he were to say, "That sounds crazy," I would believe him and not worry about it. No worries about ever taking time off from the forum! That is the great thing about Vox's site is that everyone completely understands that others get busy and have duties to attend to.  |
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